You’ll probably get a bunch of different opinions on this but mine is that Zildjian have been the best for me- I have been playing fairly loud rock since 1970 and my first Zildjians still sound great and have lasted- (even when I was playing with butt ends in the 80’s!) I have A’s and just got a ResoHat that cuts through amplification well when not miked.
Larger thinner cymbals last the longest. Anything thick like a Med. or Rock crash will break fast, same goes for small crashes like 14”-18”
I use 20” Med. Thin Crashes and I can get a lot more time out of them.